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Mara Haveson, managing broker of Compass West Seattle: Welcome, new WSB sponsor!

Today we’re welcoming a new WSB sponsor, Mara Haveson. Our new sponsors get to tell you about themselves and what they do – here’s Mara‘s story:

West Seattle’s #1 realtor in 2024 and managing broker of Compass West Seattle, Mara Haveson’s path has been marked by a steadfast commitment to excellence in the real-estate industry.

Mara‘s career began in Pittsburgh, PA, when she earned her real estate license at the young age of 18. By 19, she had bought and flipped her first house, and by 21, she had closed everything from single-family homes to industrial properties.

In 2001, after honing her skills in the Steel City’s competitive real estate market, Mara made the move to the Pacific Northwest. Here Mara aligned herself with one of the biggest brokerages in Seattle and is now one of the top-producing brokers in the Puget Sound area, with a consistent annual sales volume of over $35 million.

With a vision to create something truly special for her beloved West Seattle community, Mara established her own Compass satellite office in 2020, right in the heart of the action. This satellite office isn’t just a branch; it’s a beacon of expertise and integrity, offering personalized service to clients across the Seattle region.

Mara Haveson places a high emphasis on taking the time to truly understand each of her customer’s unique housing needs, an important component in the negotiations process when seeking a broker. With a track record that speaks for itself, and a portfolio of successful sales that showcase Mara’s ability to command top dollar for her listings, her attention to detail, personalized approach, and unwavering commitment ensures that every transaction is seamless and rewarding.

“I love seeing my long-term clients come back time after time as their lives progress.” Mara reflects, “A client may have bought her first condo with me, then came back to buy her first family home with me, and now she’s ready to step up to a home with a view. It’s very satisfying.”

As the #1 broker by sales volume in West Seattle for 2024, Mara‘s dedication to delivering exceptional results for her clients, in West Seattle and beyond, is stronger than ever.

Stop by the Compass West Seattle office (4531 California SW) or reach out to her team at marahaveson.com to connect about buying or selling in West Seattle!

We thank Mara Haveson for sponsoring independent, community-collaborative neighborhood news on WSB. Interested in doing the same? Call or text 206-293-6302.

HAPPY HUNDREDTH! Meet West Seattle’s newest centenarian

The announcement and photo are from Village Green-West Seattle (WSB sponsor):

On Monday, Henry Howard celebrated 100 years of amazing life with his friends and family at Village Green Senior Living in West Seattle. Henry has been a longtime resident in West Seattle. He has an infectious smile and amazing stories to tell. His support system found out about our community from West Seattle Blog. Help us celebrate this amazing man!! Happy Birthday, Henry!!

Farewell, Harold! Celebration planned for longtime Admiral Chevron worker who’s about to leave after more than a quarter-century

By Aspen Anderson
Reporting for West Seattle Blog

For nearly three decades, Harold Chacon has been a fixture at the Chevron station at California/Admiral in West Seattle, known for his big, bubbly personality and infectious laugh. As he prepares to retire and return to Puerto Rico to care for his aging mother, the community he’s served for years is reflecting on the impact he’s had.

“I only sell gas, I don’t buy it,” Chacon said with a laugh, noting that despite his long tenure at the station, he’s never owned a car.

Chacon’s journey to West Seattle began in 1998, when he moved from Puerto Rico to Olympia at the age of 29. After a year, he relocated to West Seattle, where a serendipitous turn on the West Seattle Bridge led him to fall in love with the area. He quickly found work at the Chevron station after noticing a “hiring” sign outside the store.

“I got lost on my way here,” Chacon recalled. “But I liked it. I stayed.”

For three years, Chacon worked the graveyard shift from 11 pm to 7 am. “You become like a vampire,” he said. The arduous hours allowed him to witness the changing dynamics of West Seattle, including the families who came in and out of the station.

“I know people who came here when they were minors on a skateboard, and I used to throw them out. Now their kids come, and I throw them out too,” Chacon said with a laugh. “The genes pass by.”

Over the years, Chacon developed a unique bond with the community he served. For him, the Chevron counter was more than a place to work — it was an equalizer.

“It doesn’t matter who you are,” he said. “It doesn’t matter your class. It doesn’t matter how big or small you think you are. Everyone’s equal in front of me at my counter.”

Chacon ultimately stayed all these years because he grew close to the family that owns the station, describing them as “really good people.” “I put roots down wherever I go … I’m like a tree,” he said.

“[Working in a gas station] you get confronted with the ugly side of humanity, but at the same time, you see the tender side,” he said.

Chacon has come to love Seattle’s ever-changing weather and the distinct seasons, a contrast to Puerto Rico, where only one season prevails year-round. He’s been particularly savoring the recent snowfall, aware that it may be the last time in his life he walks through it, feeling the flakes on his skin.

He’ll miss Seattle’s transformation into a “flower basket” in spring, the crisp shifts of fall, the harvest moon in October, and the ultra late-night sunsets.

“This community in West Seattle has been my home and so many people have touched my life, and I have touched them, I’ll take them with me in my heart and I leave part of me here too with all of them,” Chacon said. His exuberant community love was on display in the 2016 “group hug” photo for the neighboring moviehouse – in the cropped version below, you can see Harold in the back, at right, with his arms raised:

In Puerto Rico, Chacon looks forward to fully embracing retirement—relaxing on the beach, caring for his bonsai trees and taking care of his mother.

“It’s time to do my duty as a son … and take care of mama,” he said.

To honor Chacon’s retirement, the Chevron family is inviting the West Seattle community to a farewell celebration on Friday, February 28, from 10 am to noon, at the Chevron station, next to the Admiral Theater at 2347 California Ave SW–and there will be cake!

NOMINATION TIME! Who should win the 2025 Westside Awards?

It’s time for your nominations for this year’s Westside Awards! Here’s the announcement:

The West Seattle Chamber of Commerce is now accepting nominations for the 2025 Westside Awards, recognizing businesses, organizations, and individuals making a significant impact in West Seattle.

Each year, the Chamber highlights those who contribute to the strength and growth of our local economy. Community members are encouraged to submit nominations in the following categories:

Westside Business of the Year – Recognizing an established business (3+ years) demonstrating success, growth, and community involvement.
Westside Emerging Business of the Year – Honoring a promising new business (under 3 years) making a strong impact in the community.
Westside Not-for-Profit of the Year – Celebrating non-profit organizations dedicated to social good and community service.
Westsider of the Year – Recognizing an individual who has made a lasting impact through leadership, volunteerism, or service.

Nominations are open online here and will close on Tuesday, March 14, 2025.

“The Westside Awards celebrate the businesses, non-profits, and individuals who help shape West Seattle as a strong and connected community,” said Rachel Porter, Executive Director of the West Seattle Chamber. “Those nominated represent the passionate dedication that drives local business innovation and success.”

The Annual Westside Awards Breakfast will take place in person on Wednesday, May 14, 2025 at the Hall at Fauntleroy, where the Chamber will recognize the winners and finalists.

A look at past winners can be found here: loom.ly/EjWEFFs

GIVING: Delicious donations from Scout Troop 282 and Pack 793

Another story of local Scouts’ giving spirit! Last night we reported on local Girl Scouts‘ diaper-donation drives at the start of cookie season. Tonight, we’re talking two other Scouting organizations’ popcorn presents – here’s the report they asked us to share with you:

In a heartwarming display of community spirit, West Seattle Scout Troop #282 & Pack #793 recently completed an initiative that ended with them donating more than two hundred pounds of packaged popcorn to a variety of local organizations and first responders. The popcorn, which was part of the troop’s annual fundraising efforts, was delivered to local food banks, police officers, firefighters, and veterans in the area.

A portion went to the West Seattle Food Bank, providing snacks for families in need. Another share was given to local fire stations, where firefighters were treated to a much-appreciated snack during their shifts.

The officers at the Southwest Precinct also received a portion, as did the families at the Fisher House (which supports the VA hospital).

The troop, Scouts ranging from ages 11 to 18, has long been committed to service within the community, and this donation continues their tradition of giving back. The popcorn, a popular product sold during the Scouts’ yearly fundraiser, was distributed to essential local service workers and community members who often go unnoticed, showing gratitude and appreciation for their hard work and dedication.

“It’s really important for us to not only raise funds for our activities but to also contribute to the well-being of our neighbors,” said Troop Leader Justin Kinch. “We know how much of a difference small act of kindness can make, and we wanted to give a small thank you to those who give so much to our community every day.”

For one of the Scouts, the donation also carried tremendous personal importance. Last fall his father suffered a rapid onset of severe septic shock caused by an infection. Firefighters arrived in the middle of the night and resuscitated him by rapidly stabilizing his blood pressure and then hand-carried him out of the house to the paramedics’ gurney. Thanks to their life-saving actions, he survived the journey to the hospital, where he underwent emergency surgery and spent several weeks recovering. After many months of healing, he is now fully recovered and looking forward to leading Scout outings again this year–including mountaineering training for safe use of ice axes in steep, snowy terrain. Sharing the popcorn was one more opportunity for their family to express their gratitude for the vital service firefighters provide to our community at a moment’s notice, 24/7.

The troop’s donation efforts are part of a larger mission to teach young Scouts the value of service and giving. Beyond fundraising, the troop regularly participates in projects like park cleanups, environmental conservation, and organizing food drives. The popcorn initiative has already sparked conversations about potential future collaborations with other community groups in the West Seattle area. For more information on how to support Troop 282’s initiatives or to see what else they have been doing, visit their website at troop282.net.

Ever wonder what happens before those Girl Scout Cookies get to you? See what happened today at WestSide Baby

(WSB photos/video)

By Tracy Record
West Seattle Blog editor

A new partnership blossomed today, as dozens of local Girl Scout troops picked up cases of cookies outside the WestSide Baby warehouse in White Center – and left behind gifts: Thousands of donated diapers!

It’s the first year of this new partnership – WestSide Baby’s back lot was perfect for delivering and distributing more than 5,000 cases of this year’s taste treats, from Samoas to S’mores, Lemon-Ups to Tagalongs.

It was an especially good fit as a “family-forward event,” WS Baby’s Will Owen noted. Volunteers of all ages were there to help distribute the cases of cookies, set aside for troops based on their advance orders as well as what they expect to sell when cookie booths open in less than two weeks. This volunteer group was from Troop 46282Emery, Sophie, and Rondy, plus helper August:

The Girl Scouts’ Service Unit, 550 – which includes 60 troops from West Seattle to Vashon Island – had planned everything perfectly – until a delivery delay almost threatened the pickup plans – but the trucks showed up a few hours later than scheduled, just in time for pickups to happen this afternoon after all:

This truck was particularly welcome – one volunteer looking at the boxes excitedly exclaimed, “I see green!” – that meant its load included the most popular Girl Scout Cookies of all, Thin Mints (“I need 34 cases!” declared one troop rep standing by):

Cami Allers, managing the day’s logistics, told us that if troops run out before cookie-selling season is over, there’s a designated “Cookie Cupboard” from which they can get more.

While cookie booths will open Friday, February 28 – look for your nearest one(s) here (or order online!) – WestSide Baby is launching a campaign of its own the day after that. Development and communications director Morgan McGinn told us the next donation campaign starts March 1st; watch for news of how to help. Diaper donations are always welcome, and the sizes most needed right now are 4, 5, and 6, plus pullups. Meantime, volunteers continued tallying thousands of Scout-donated diapers today even as the cookie pickups continued:

We’re waiting to hear who finished as the top troops on the diaper-donation list; everyone who brought some in got a goodie bag, which included information about the tens of thousands of children that West Seattle-founded WestSide Baby serves every year. (Here’s how you can help them too.)

GRATITUDE: Warm clothing/food drive wraps up at Dave Newman State Farm Insurance Agency

This icy-cold weather makes it all the more important that generous people in our area have donated lots of warm clothes this winter to people who need them. That includes all the donors for the Dave Newman State Farm Insurance Agency (WSB sponsor) drive, which started during the holidays and ran all the way through January. They’ve just sent this report with words of gratitude:

(Team member Ty Hurst and volunteer Rodger Tanner)

The West Seattle Food Bank annual clothing drive has once again been a big success! This year’s donations from generous friends and neighbors allow the West Seattle Food Bank to assist local citizens at a critical time of year.

The clothing drive at Dave Newman State Farm Agency happens every year in December and January. This year we also included food donations.– THANKS, FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS. And thanks to volunteers like lifelong West Seattle resident Rodger Tanner, who not only volunteers with the clothing drive every year but also assists the Helpline with facilities, maintenance and equipment, and thanks to West Seattle Recycling for providing the donation barrels.

Watch for the clothing drive at the end of this year – December and January are hard cold months for many.

If you still have. items to donate, two other drives are under way – we’ll have a reminder about those soon, likely later today.

VIDEO: A Cleaner Alki gets REI showcase for ‘plogging’

Though most of that video was recorded off-peninsula, the star is Erik Bell, founder of the prolific volunteer-cleanup group A Cleaner Alki (which does its good work at many non-Alki spots too). The video was created by REI (West Seattle-founded!); Erik explains, “The actual Plogging video (running and trash pickup) was shot by REI’s Events Team at Lake Union last Fall to feature on their YouTube channel, and it just went live today. They wanted to highlight what A Cleaner Alki was about, so I provided them with a bunch of stills and a handful of drone videos I had shot at our cleanups” (you’ll notice some of that showing the Marginal pullout under the West Seattle Bridge). Want to get involved with A Cleaner Alki? They’re out pretty much daily – see where and when by going here.

UPDATE: Missing man found

SUNDAY NIGHT: The missing man that KCSO had been seeking has been found, safe.

Earlier:

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REUNION: Attention, Chief Sealth Class of 1975!

January 30, 2025 9:04 am
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(WSB file photo)

After we published the reunion announcement for Chief Sealth‘s Class of 1965 earlier this week, we heard from the class that graduated 10 years later, trying to get the word out about their milestone reunion too:

Attention, Chief Sealth High School Class of 1975 Graduates!

The date, time and location for this auspicious occasion – our 50-Year Class Reunion, has been secured. Classmates have already begun registering for this epic event. Deposits are due, so early registration would be greatly appreciated. The registration form is attached. You can find detailed information on the flyer posted on the Chief Sealth High School Class of 1975 Facebook site. Below are a few of the details for our awesome event:

Date: Saturday, May 17, 2025
Time: 5:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Location: The Museum of Flight, 9404 East Marginal Way South – Skyline Room
Catering: Buffet dinner catered by McCormick & Schmick’s
Cost: $90 per person (up to 150 attendees, then $98 per person); cost includes free entrance for a self-guided tour of the Museum day of the reunion
Attire: Casual
Parking: Free
RSVP: Advance registration only – send your registration form in now!

We anticipate this to be an affair to remember! Looking forward to seeing you May 17th!

Debra Zueger Taylor
d_taylor_97@comcast.net
Reunion Committee Chair

UPDATE: Missing teen found

12:51 AM: The missing teen’s family reports she’s been found, and reports they are “indescribably grateful for the community’s help.”

Earlier:

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GRATITUDE: Alki UCC donation drive draws big response

January 22, 2025 9:11 am
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Thanks to Cinda for the photo and report about last Sunday’s monthly donation-dropoff drive at Alki UCC (previewed here):

The good people of West Seattle responded with generosity! They came in a steady flow on Sunday, bearing gifts of warm coats, blankets, boots, and food. … I delivered 20 blankets to Camp Second Chance Sunday evening. The remaining will go to unsheltered guests at Westside Interfaith Network’s Saturday hot lunch program. The coats will be given out too. Can’t wait to do so!

Alki UCC usually has similar drives, as noted in our West Seattle Event Calendar, on the third Sunday of the month.

PHOTOS: Here’s what students, Scouts, and other MLK Day of Service volunteers did at Lincoln Park

One of the local MLK Day of Service volunteering opportunities we featured in advance was a forest-restoration event at Lincoln Park. Today we have photos and words of gratitude sent by forest steward Lisa McGinty from Friends of Lincoln Park:

We are so thankful for the 91 volunteers who braved the cold and brought the sun to honor MLKJ and build community while caring for the land.

This event was co-led by WSHS Earth Club students Tatum Paddock, Charlie Lewis, Madi Krehbiel, Lizzy Greene, Noah Swab, Cooper Schwerin, and Adam Gosztola. Thanks also to local Cub Scouts 282 for bringing their fun energy.

You can watch here for future Lincoln Park volunteering opportunities (and elsewhere too – right now that page shows four West Seattle events in the next week alone).

READER REPORT: Meet a ‘Scouting sales sensation’

Fundraising can be a challenge. A West Seattle Scout has managed to conquer that, big time. Jack R. emailed us to share the story:

Scouting Sales Sensation: Layton Stone’s Trailblazing Popcorn Journey

You may have seen this dashing Scout from Troop 282 around West Seattle and close neighborhoods hawking popcorn. You may have observed his great selling abilities and charming smile. What you may not know is that Layton is a popcorn-selling sensation and sold more popcorn in 2024 than all but one other Scout in the country, over $50,000. He sold so much popcorn that he’s throwing out the first pitch on at the Mariners baseball Scout Night game in April. So, that is your chance to say you saw Layton back in the day before he was famous.

You may be wondering, what is this popcorn he was selling? Popcorn is the way scouts raise money for their troop and Scouting activities. So if you were one of the great people buying popcorn from Layton, you helped support a great cause. If you see a Scout selling popcorn when sales start up again this summer, please stop by. A little hint – the caramel popcorn is the best.

READER REPORT: A different kind of package story

For once, a package story that’s not about theft. From the WSB inbox:

We received a package that was mistakenly delivered to our home that has a very similar address to the intended recipient. Vida, if you are looking for a package from Michael’s, we drove over and dropped it at your front door, but I tucked it behind a small bush for safe keeping. I hope you have found it, and happy crafting!

FOLLOWUP: West Seattle neighbors replace what a driver took away

(WSB photos)

Back on Tuesday night, we reported briefly on a driver going up onto a sidewalk in Upper Morgan and hitting a home’s streetfront stairs. We’ve learned only one thing about the crash since then: It took out the stairs’ railing (missing in the photo above, taken this morning). That left the home’s longtime resident unable to get to and from the sidewalk safely, explained the neighbors who decided to take action.

Above are Todd and Noah. Another neighbor texted us this morning (thank you!) that they would be working today to “weld a new handrail and repair other damage.” We went over and took the photo just as they were setting up, with plans to go back in the afternoon to get the “after” photo:

Todd and Noah were gone by then, but when we saw them this morning, they were low-key about their good deed – Todd said they’d been neighbors a long time, and just wanted to help.

CONGRATULATIONS! West Seattle couple celebrates the new year with a new baby

One of the region’s first babies of 2025 was born to a West Seattle couple before the new year was even an hour old! Providence Swedish shared the photo and announcement with WSB:

Mary and Bill Belcher of West Seattle welcomed their second child – an 8.54-pound, 20.5-inch-long baby boy, named Wilder Oak Belcher – at 12:47 a.m, which earned him the distinction of being the first baby born at Providence Swedish First Hill in 2025.

The arrival of Wilder was preceded by 6,231 births at the 114-year-old, nonprofit hospital in 2024.

The Belchers, who have been married for six years, are also parents of a two-year-old daughter named Willow, who was being cared for by her grandmother, Sharon, while Mary labored and delivered in the hospital. The family shared that Mary’s 60-minute labor went smoothly and included a minute between contractions, which allowed them to experience a memorable countdown to midnight with their Labor and Delivery caregivers. The couple added, “We’re overjoyed with the birth and excited to introduce Wilder to his big sister, Willow.”

On New Year’s Eve, USA TODAY reported, “Babies born in 2025, and for the 14 years following, will make up the newest generation, called Generation Beta. Members of Gen Beta, for short, will be the children of younger millennials and older Gen Zers and by 2035, they are estimated to make up at least 16% of the global population. Additionally, many Gen Beta members will likely live into the 22nd century. Babies born in 2025 will be 76 years old when the year 2101 comes around.”

Tree farmers with deep West Seattle roots win national award

(Photos courtesy Dave Townsend and family)

By Anne Higuera
Special to West Seattle Blog

If you go to a tree nursery, they will often tell you that the best time to plant a tree is today. For one West Seattle family, the best time started 70 years ago, when their grandfather began purchasing regenerating timberland with an eye to the future. Just this month, Robert Wise’s vision and his family’s work stewarding that land led to his grandchildren and their spouses being named National Outstanding Tree Farmers of the Year by the American Forest Foundation.

(The family’s 2023 award paved the way for this year’s national award)

Wise settled in West Seattle almost a century ago, after finishing a business degree at the University of Washington. He came to Washington State from Iowa after serving in WWI, determined not to be a farmer, but he was wowed by the vast forests of the Pacific Northwest as rode the train westward. Summer breaks from college were spent at logging camps, and after graduating, Wise continued to work as a logger, and started a fuel business with his wife Beatrice from his property on Harbor Avenue SW.

(Robert Wise, 1960)

While the Wises were raising their two sons and daughter in the city, Robert wasn’t initially able to realize the dream of owning his own timberland.

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GIVING: Arrowhead Gardens residents ‘warm up a lot of feet’ – and hearts

(WSB photos)

Over the past decade-plus, hundreds of residents of the Arrowhead Gardens senior-living complex in southeastern West Seattle have “warmed up a lot of feet,” as resident council president Diane Radischat describes it, donating more than 12,000 socks to people in our area. At a party tonight, they hosted this year’s recipients:

25 members of the Duwamish Valley Youth Corps came to Arrowhead Gardens to enjoy pizza, cookies, cocoa, and cider, and to choose presents for their families – not just some of those socks, but also hand-knit blankets, handmade jewelry, and other items geared for all ages so they could find something for everyone in their families.

The gift items for the youth to choose from were all donated by residents – including almost 1,000 socks – donated at a recent Christmas brunch, Radischat explained (she’s second from right below, with, from left, some of the other organizers, L-R, Joe, Diana, and Marty):

Over the years, the Arrowhead Gardens residents’ donations have gone to shelters, tiny-house villages, and the West Seattle Food Bank‘s Clothesline. This year’s recipients, the Duwamish Valley Youth Corps, are deeply involved in their community too, with the program including outdoor work from tree planting to raingarden construction.

HELPING: Local Girl Scouts solve a problem, as ‘Agents of Change’

Troop co-leaders Robin and Jess shared this news:

Our Girl Scout Troop made up of Junior Girl Scouts from local West Seattle schools, all in 5th grade, recently completed a huge project … at a camp we attend for Girl Scouts, St. Albans. They had to come up with a problem to solve, one that would result in the change being lasting and substantial. When we went camping at St. Albans we couldn’t figure out the recycling, so that was our problem that we then spent a year “fixing” for future campers.
It took a lot of creative thinking for outdoor signs (waterproof paper!) and how to make sure animals wouldn’t get into the bins (“put your CLEAN can in here”).

They received a donation of recycled milk crates from Smith Brothers Farms, courtesy of a former Girl Scout. “Those 25 crates saved us hundred of dollars on bins, and helped us up-cycle plastic in our recycling project!” Here’s the troop’s official announcement:

Junior Girl Scout Troop 40028 is excited to announce the completion of our Agents of Change project at Girl Scouts of Western Washington property Camp St. Albans.

This yearlong project started with a problem to solve, not understanding how and what to recycle when we camped at St. Albans.

With engineering, teamwork, and design, we created a framework that will help campers at St. Albans dispose of waste correctly. This system will sustain for many seasons to come, rain or shine.

Thank you to Smith Brothers Farms for donating milk crates, an essential tool in our project.

Thanks to future Girl Scout Campers who will maintain and sustain this project for St. Albans and for helping to make this world a better place.

MISSING: Teresa – FOUND

8:48 PM: The missing woman’s family says she’s been found. Photo and contact info removed. Earlier:

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GIVING: Quail Park of West Seattle feeds firefighters

Just by their nature, senior-living communities tend to see firefighters/paramedics often. But this encounter wasn’t an emergency, as explained by Quail Park of West Seattle (WSB sponsor):

In a show of appreciation for the tireless efforts of local first responders, Quail Park of West Seattle delivered a special lunch to the dedicated firefighters of Station 32 today. Residents and staff brought a hearty meal of brisket, ribs, and pulled pork from Jack’s BBQ in SoDo to thank the firehouse for their service to the community.

This gesture is a heartfelt thank-you to the team at Station 32, who have served Quail Park and the surrounding neighborhood over the years. The BBQ lunch was a small token of gratitude for the critical work they do to keep the area safe.

Station 32 is just east of The Junction, at 38th/Alaska.

ELECTION AFTERMATH: Here’s what happened on today’s Grief/Relief Walk

By Eddie Westerman
Special to West Seattle Blog

Whether knocking on doors, writing postcards, donating money, participating in conversations, or simply being barraged by news and election ads, it would have been difficult not to experience some stress in the months leading up to Tuesday’s election.

That’s why folklorist and grief coach Tamara Kubacki led a Post-Election Grief/Relief Walk at Jack Block Park in. West Seattle this afternoon, open to people feeling either of those emotions, though the former seemed to prevail among participants. The rainy walk gave people the chance to be in nature while feeling and talking about grief or relief from the weeks leading up to Tuesday’s election. The peaceful walk also opened the door to other issues people feel they are facing in their own lives and the collective stress in the nation and world.

“We’re not meant to grieve on our own,” Kubacki says. “Being with others makes it feel less lonely.”

Participants shared their experiences through stories, poetry and conversation along the walking path. Kubacki, who runs a company called Listening to Grief, says she hopes participants of today’s walk felt a sense of community. She reminds people that it is healthy to talk about their grief.

One participant, Smith Sinclair, says he took a day off after the election and that he is still in denial.

“My grief is spilling over. I’m not participating in any media,” Sinclair says. “I was so hopeful.” He says he’s worried for immigrants and others and that he was deeply disappointed because he felt Kamala Harris ran a flawless campaign. He felt hopeful in the campaign work he did in Washington State, but despondent about what happened in the nation.

As part of the walk, Kubacki asked participants to ground themselves with breathing exercises, notice the sounds and the nature in the park and take time to genuinely listen to one another’s thoughts.

“I feel like fleeing,” Susan Holmgren says. She came on the walk, she says, to connect with her mother, who was a political activist when she was alive. Holmgren says her mother marched in countless anti-war demonstrations and that she would be so distressed to feel her children might have fewer rights than she had. While she does have dual citizenship because her mother was a United Kingdom citizen, Holmgren feels there are too many obstacles – especially financial ones — preventing her from trying to live in a different country.

Another walker at today’s event said it was heartbreaking to watch his 30-something children’s faces fall as the election results tumbled in. He was sad he couldn’t just “kiss the problem away for them.”

Kubacki says today’s walk, inspired by two Olympia-based organizations — Window Seat Media and Wild Grief – is a way for those in the community to come together when things feel awry. “Stories can be an anchor in uncertain times,” she says. The walk gave people the chance to think about what stories they were holding on to that they wanted to release.