FOLLOWUP: 93-year-old man out of jail after allegedly taking wife from care center at gunpoint

Another followup on an incident we covered over the weekend: A 93-year-old man arrested after allegedly threatening a local care center’s staff at gunpoint before leaving with his wife, described as a dementia patient who lived there. He was booked into jail late Friday night and released Sunday night. He had a court hearing in the meantime where a judge found probable cause to investigate him for assault. The King County Prosecuting Attorney’s Office asked that he be referred for involuntary treatment; the judge released him on personal recognizance with no-contact orders for three people and for Quail Park of West Seattle in The Junction, where it happened. Prosecutors will decide whether to file charges. Here’s the narrative from police as included in the probable-cause documents.

I spoke with an employee at the care facility (who) stated that there has been an ongoing issue between (arrestee, his wife, staff).

(Employee) provided the following information. (The couple) both began residing at Quail Park in approximately January. (Husband) was deemed to be competent to care for himself and moved out shortly after. It was determined that (wife) was not able to care for herself due to a Dementia diagnosis. (Employee) described her as “pleasantly confused” and stated that she needed assistance with remembering to eat and other daily life tasks. He stated that (husband) was unable to assist her in these efforts. He stated that (wife)’s daughter had Power of Attorney for (wife) and decided to have (wife) remain at the facility.

According to (staff), (husband) has come to the facility on multiple prior occasions to visit with (wife) (at least two incidents were documented under SPD 2026-050250 and 2026-017194). They stated that during those visits (husband) was “verbally aggressive” and expressed his intent to remove (wife) from the facility. Staff enforced their rules for retaining (wife) and limiting (husband)’s contact with her. During one of those incidents, (husband) stated that he was going to come back with weapons and kill (employee).

Today, at approximately 1325 hours, (husband) was at the facility visiting with (wife). (husband), again, attempted to remove (wife) from the facility.

One staff member attempted to stop (husband). (husband) responded by pulling out a firearm and making multiple statements expressing his intent to leave with (wife). One of the statements was, “I’m going to get her out of here one way or another”. (Employee) stated that (husband) did not point the gun at her, but he waved it around and held it by his side. She said that she felt threatened by his actions and that she believed “he was going to shoot me.” (Staff) then ran outside and hid behind a car.

(Another staffer) stated that observed(husband) in an agitated state and observed him holding the firearm. She expressed significant fear and stated that she ducked down behind her desk and hid during the majority of the incident.

(Employee) stated that he observed (husband) remove a small black handgun from his right front pocket. He stated that (husband) expressed his intent to leave the facility with his wife and pointed the firearm directly at (employee)’s chest. He was within approximately fifteen feet of (employee) at that time, with no barriers in-between them. (husband) had made threats to harm (employee) in the past. (employee) stated that he believed (husband) was going to shoot him.

(husband) then left the facility with his wife. (wife) did not appear to be forcefully removed by (husband). She seemed to be in a confused state and made statements about wanting to go home.

(husband) was located and taken into custody by King County Sheriff’s Deputies while enroute to his residence. He was taken into custody without resistance. A small black Ruger handgun was located on his person. The firearm was loaded and two additional loaded magazines were recovered from him…

The husband has no criminal record; conditions of release also include that he not have deadly weapons – his lawyer says he has none besides the one allegedly used in this incident – and that he not drive.

19 Replies to "FOLLOWUP: 93-year-old man out of jail after allegedly taking wife from care center at gunpoint"

  • WS Res March 30, 2026 (5:14 pm)

    This sounds like a heartbreaking situation for the man and his wife (and her daughter) as well as a scary one for the employees.

  • dzag March 30, 2026 (5:52 pm)

    Do we know the name of the judge I won’t be voting for them during the next election. He terrorized the staff and while I know age is a factor that should definitely be considered;being released on his own recognizance is unacceptable and dangerous for the community 

    • flimflam March 31, 2026 (8:08 am)

      Oh please, this was an extremely localized incident – the public isn’t in danger.

      • dzag March 31, 2026 (10:35 am)

        How would you feel if you or your family member had a gun pulled on you at work and the person who pulled it was released without a competency hearing or consequences? Thank you Tracy at WSB for continuing to bring these issues to light and for your outstanding reporting. 

    • Lisa April 11, 2026 (9:50 am)

      Same!

  • onion March 30, 2026 (6:03 pm)

    Gut wrenching to read. I cannot imagine the pain for the husband and wife, their family, and all of the caretakers at Quail Park.

  • R u kidding! March 30, 2026 (6:07 pm)

    You have got to be kidding me! Judge let him out because of personal recognizance. The man threatened staff WITH A GUN in a memory care facility with incredibly vulnerable adults. This is ridiculous! HE BELONGS IN JAIL. I don’t care how old he is. Innocent people could have died because of his actions. 

    • Eddie March 30, 2026 (8:36 pm)

      Are you kidding? The guy is 93 years old trying to be with his 90-year-old wife who’s confused and declining. This isn’t some career criminal—it’s an elderly man in a desperate, emotional situation.
      Should he have brought a gun? Obviously not. But this is what desperation looks like when someone’s losing the person they’ve spent a lifetime with. 
      If your first reaction is outrage instead of even a little empathy, that says more about you than it does about him. We’d all do some crazy things for ones that we love. 

  • Alki resident March 30, 2026 (6:40 pm)

    He’s 93 and likely has some trauma not having his wife at home with him for the first time in ever. Not sure if he thought he was going to care for her once at home or if he planned something sinister for the both of them. Sad situation all around. I hope someone can keep him busy so he’s not going more nuts without her. Will be praying for all involved. 

  • Person March 30, 2026 (7:31 pm)

    I don’t know this family’s situation, but I do know that abusers don’t stop being abusers just because they get old.Glad the woman has a daughter who can look out for her.

    • Mike March 31, 2026 (1:47 pm)

      Do you have any evidence, even one little shred, that this man is abusive towards his wife? This seems to me to have been a dangerous and completely inappropriate act of emotional desperation, not the behavior of a serial abuser.  Please try to have just a little bit of empathy for what he must be going through.

      • Person March 31, 2026 (2:10 pm)

        Absolutely not, nor did I say I do. I do know an elderly person who behaves this way and has been abusive their whole life. The wife finally has peace and is free from him in assisted living. Age doesn’t excuse this behavior.I hope his guns were at least taken away.

      • IDC9 March 31, 2026 (5:56 pm)

        Mike, I agree with your assessment, especially since the man had no criminal record prior to this. While this act was indeed reckless and dangerous, it seems to have been nothing more than an elderly man deeply missing his wife of many years who wanted her back, and, in a state of emotional desperation, chose to go about it the wrong way. I do not believe this man will go on to commit any further crimes, so long as he gets the help he needs to cope with his wife not living at home with him anymore. I hope he will be afforded that help. I also hope that he will be held accountable for his terrible decision. Prison time feels both appropriate and inappropriate under the circumstances, and I feel for the Judge who will have to decide on a sentence in this case when the time comes for that. It is not going to be an easy decision.

  • BV March 30, 2026 (9:00 pm)

    Thank you WS Blog for following up on this very sad story. The Husband sounds like he was very lonely, confused and upset. He sounds extremely heart broken, not an abuser.  

  • Ronald March 30, 2026 (9:10 pm)

    He should’ve been held for a competency hearing. I’m judging by the age, he’s clearly not thinking in the best of judgment. He probably misses his spouse and wants her back.We know nothing about these people.

  • 1994 March 30, 2026 (9:59 pm)

    The firearm was loaded and two additional loaded magazines were recovered from him..…Wow! That sounds like a lot of bullets on his person while visiting a senior living facility.

  • NoMad Sci Guy March 31, 2026 (6:57 am)

    I assume the authorities have seized his guns. This is a rough one for sure. I’ve seen what the loss of a spouse does to an old man (my father). In this case he lost his wife but she’s still alive.  I’m not for what he did, but I understand why he did it.

  • Donna March 31, 2026 (11:55 am)

    I’m retired from a few decades of working in mental health wellness and recovery. I did a considerable amount of work as a trainer in suicide prevention. When I read about this a few days ago, and reading this today, my very first reaction is there’s a good possibility this could have turned into a very tragic murder-suicide. The risk factors are quite significant. Men 75 and over have the highest suicide rate (most people mistakenly think it’s teens and young adults), and isolation and loss compound that. Perhaps that’s not how this would have ended; we can’t know for certain. Nor can we forget that some couples in their end of life planning discuss their wishes should certain conditions arise. I’m very glad nobody was physically harmed; the employees were mentally harmed and the wife may also.They need a lot of support, and regardless of his intentions the husband also needs close support because suicide risk increases even further when legal issues are in the mixture.

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