Remembering Stefan Gryniewski, 1995–2023

Family and friends are remembering Stefan Gryniewski. His father shares this remembrance:

My son, Stefan Gryniewski, died of an accidental drug overdose in the early morning of August 23, 2023. He left this world too soon. At least I know that he is at peace now in God’s love and no longer subject to the ravages of a terrible drug addiction.

He will be missed terribly and remembered always.

From his very beginning Stefan faced challenges in life. He was born prematurely, weighing a mere 2 lbs. 4 ozs. He spent 58 days in an incubator before coming home. When I first held him in my hands, and he wasn’t much bigger than my hands, I wondered aloud “how is this baby going to survive?” However, he received excellent care from the doctors and nurses at Swedish Hospital in Seattle, and I am forever grateful.

Stefan was a fighter. He not only survived but he thrived. He sought to overcome every obstacle he faced in life. He had the strength, courage, and desire to live life to its fullest. He was smart, funny, sociable, dependable, and loved his family. Unfortunately, over the last few years Fentanyl and heroin hijacked his resolve and took his life.

Stefan’s smile lit up a room. He loved to laugh and sing. For some odd reason he had a special love for songs from the 1970s. He was a goofball in every way. He was also focused, motivated, and goal oriented.

Growing up, Stefan immersed himself in many things. He loved sports – especially baseball and football. He was a rabid Mariners, Huskies, and Seahawks fan. He loved American muscle cars and dreamed of owning one at some point in his life. He took every auto shop class that he could in high school and learned his way around cars.

Stefan also loved camping and nature. We spent many wonderful summers camping together at Tahklahk Lake in the Gifford Pinchot National Forest. He loved swimming, fishing, hiking, and reading Harry Potter by the fire. For those memories Tahklahk Lake will always occupy a special place in our hearts now and forever.

A voracious reader, Stefan was also interested in current events, politics, and the world around him. He was passionate about many causes and always stood up for what he believed in. He had a particular gift for languages and was fluent in many of them. Stefan was proud of his Polish heritage and dreamed of traveling to Poland someday to meet his relatives.
More than anything, Stefan wanted to create a loving, stable life for his family and dreamed of a successful career, becoming a homeowner, and contributing to his community.

Stefan graduated Cum Laude from Ingraham High School, where he also wrestled and played football. He was enrolled at the University of Washington – Tacoma, where he was 30 credits short of a degree in Global Honors at the time of his passing.

Stefan is survived by Bruce Gryniewski (father), Eva Luna (mother), Levi Gryniewski (brother), Pechanda Von (wife), Felix Gryniewski (son), and many loving aunts, uncles and cousins.

In lieu of flowers or remembrances, please consider making a donation to a drug addiction treatment center or organization of your choice. No words can describe the pain of losing a child but every life we save will be forever in his memory.

(WSB publishes West Seattle obituaries and memorial announcements by request, free of charge. Please email the text, and a photo if available, to westseattleblog@gmail.com)

30 Replies to "Remembering Stefan Gryniewski, 1995–2023"

  • J August 28, 2023 (9:05 am)

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for your family. Addiction is the worst. 

  • Blbl August 28, 2023 (9:05 am)

    My deepest condolences for your loss. He sounds like an amazing person, whose bright light was extinguished far too soon. 

  • Ihhh August 28, 2023 (9:09 am)

    May your son be at peace. Thank you for sharing. 

  • montanapup August 28, 2023 (9:23 am)

    My condolences to you and your family. May he rest and be in peace. Thank you for sharing your son. 

  • SlimJim August 28, 2023 (9:27 am)

    Thank you for remembering and sharing his life in a public forum. Also, thank you for being open about the challenges he faced with addiction. May the light we shine on that problem go out in the world and heal others. Peace to you and your family.

  • Michelle August 28, 2023 (9:30 am)

    What a lovely smile and memories. Thanks for sharing. So sorry for your loss.

  • local August 28, 2023 (10:06 am)

    My heart goes out to you and your family, Dad. Your son seems like he was a wonderful human. May you find peace and comfort as you navigate this massive loss. 

  • Kindly August 28, 2023 (10:25 am)

    I am very sorry for your loss. May you find peace in the memories of happiness and love you shared with your son. 

  • A Mom August 28, 2023 (10:44 am)

    What a beautiful tribute to your son Stefan who sounds like a wonderful person of whom you can be proud for the man he was.  Hoping you can over time feel comfort and peace remembering the happy times with him. 

  • RLV August 28, 2023 (10:45 am)

    I send all of you so much love. Thank you for telling us about Stefan’s life. 

  • Bonnie August 28, 2023 (10:59 am)

    I am so very sorry the loss of your son. It sounds like he was a wonderful person. 

  • Greg August 28, 2023 (11:12 am)

    So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful remembrance. 

  • Jim Parsons August 28, 2023 (11:26 am)

    Bruce, we are heartbroken over this tragic loss.  Thanks for the beautiful tribute to Stefan.  May the love and support of those around you and our greater community support you in the coming days.  You’re in our thoughts and prayers.

  • DRW August 28, 2023 (11:30 am)

    You are loved.

  • JW August 28, 2023 (11:34 am)

    Sorry for your loss. My sincere thank you for sharing the details that help de-stigmatize our tragic societal woes.

  • Derrick August 28, 2023 (12:28 pm)

    Thank you for sharing this tragic story. The drug epidemic is more than just horrible statistics and numbers. Each number is a story, a face, a human who was once full of potential and hope. Each death leaves behind a scar on those who remain behind. Grief is love with nowhere to go. May the love you have for Stefan remind you of the beauty of our shared humanity, and with time may the memories of the happy times outweigh the memories of the struggles. 

  • Jim G. August 28, 2023 (1:06 pm)

    What a wonderful young man. I wish I’d known him. Thank you for sharing.

  • Charly August 28, 2023 (1:43 pm)

    My heart goes out to you and your family, this is a loss no one should have to endure. 

  • m August 28, 2023 (1:59 pm)

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for putting a face, name, and life story to this tragic event. Hoping for peace for your family. 

    • Westside August 28, 2023 (4:40 pm)

      I am sorry for your loss. F*ck fentanyl.

  • Kim August 28, 2023 (2:11 pm)

    Sending so much love. He sounded wonderful

  • Carol Loughlin August 28, 2023 (5:44 pm)

    I’m so very sorry to learn about the loss of this wonderful young man.  My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  • oerthehillz August 28, 2023 (6:06 pm)

    What a beautiful testimony to Stefan. It seems, after they are gone,  that the ones who had the fullest lives, were also the shortest lives. As if they knew their time here was going to be quick. He was inspiring to many.

  • Loghousemenin August 28, 2023 (6:24 pm)

    A bright light extinguished too soon. Bruce I am very sad and we are sending prayers for you and all your family. 

  • Kristi August 28, 2023 (7:03 pm)

    My condolences on the loss of your son, he sounded like a really great person, wonderful photo of him, he looked so full of life and possibilities.  Addiction is a terrible disease that steals a person’s hopes and dreams and often their life and affects the lives of their family and friends as well.  Thank you for honestly sharing, like others mentioned, it is important that people understand addicts are people, not just statistics.    I hope you can find peace.

  • Miss Janet August 28, 2023 (7:08 pm)

    I am very saddened to hear this news. I worked with Stephan. He was very well liked by everyone. His smile was the Best.He was great to talk with. He was excited to be a Dad. May he Rest in Peace. Condolences to his family F Drugs…

  • Compassionate Neighbor August 29, 2023 (6:04 am)

    Praying you and his mother find strength in knowing that you were amazing parents, and he spent all of his days loved. May peace and comfort come to you both, his brother, wife, child and everyone’s life he touched.

  • Jalice August 29, 2023 (1:40 pm)

    Thank you for sharing about his life and offering such a deeply helpful way to remember Stefan. Too many are lost this way. 

  • Mark Batterson-Ecton September 7, 2023 (4:53 pm)

    I was a Front End Manager at QFC in the junction and Stefan was part of my team. Stefan always came to work with a smile on his face and was always first to ask “how was I doing” and “what was new in my life”?Stefan had such a kind soul and a passion for things he really enjoyed in his life. I never was aware he struggled with addiction, he was always so happy. I always looked forward to shifts when I knew he was going to be working with me, he always had such a positive attitude and that smile of his could melt snow. He was very happy when he met Pechanda and they had gotten married and were having a baby. Addiction affects many families, mine included. God bless your family and everyone who knew and loved Stefan, I will always remember him, such a big loss. Take care. Mark Batterson-Ecton

    • Brandon September 9, 2023 (10:41 pm)

      OH NO! Im so sad to hear of his passing! I also knew him from QFC. He was awesome and I loved working with him. I always hoped for the best for him, Pechanda, and Felix when we parted ways in life. Prayers to your entire family.

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