Remembering Richard ‘Rick’ Cocker, 1952-2025

Family and friends are remembering Rick Cocker, and sharing this with his community:

Richard “Rick” LeRoy Cocker, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and respected public-relations professional, passed away peacefully at home in West Seattle on April 3, 2025, at the age of 72.

Rick was born in Elgin, Illinois, to Myron and Marge Cocker, both of whom preceded him in death. He was raised in the Pacific Northwest and graduated from the University of Washington.

Rick’s career reflected both his sharp intellect and his steady, thoughtful nature. In high school, he spent summers in North Bend working on a forest fire crew for the Department of Natural Resources. During college, he worked as a copy aide at the Seattle Post-Intelligencer. After graduation, he took a reporting job at the Bellingham Herald. In 1977, Rick and his wife Pam embarked on one of their greatest adventures — moving to Washington, D.C., where Rick briefly worked for Congressman Lloyd Meeds and later served as Press Secretary to Senator Henry “Scoop” Jackson.

Following Senator Jackson’s passing, Rick and Pam returned to Seattle, where he led communications for the Port of Seattle. He later founded his own public-relations firm, The Cocker Company, which became Cocker Fennessy when he partnered with Anne Fennessy. Over the years, Rick took pride in representing a wide range of clients and industries — from aviation and maritime to education, Native American tribes, and all levels of government. He believed deeply in the power of clear, ethical communication and in doing work that made a difference.

Rick was also a strong advocate for supporting women in the workplace, a value rooted in admiration for his mother, Marge Cocker — one of the first female pilots in the Pacific Northwest and a former editor of Pacific Northwest Magazine at the Seattle Post-Intelligencer. Her trailblazing example shaped Rick’s deep respect for women’s leadership and voices throughout his life and career.

Rick married the love of his life, Pamela (Pam) Palmer, on June 23, 1973. They were married for over 50 years and built a beautiful life together. Rick is survived by Pam; their daughters, Sarah (Adam) Sherman and Claire (Matthew) O’Connell; and seven beloved grandchildren: Jane Sherman, Mae Sherman, Theodore Sherman, Harrison O’Connell, Eleanor O’Connell, Ford O’Connell, and Ruth O’Connell.

He is also survived by siblings Scott Compton, Robin Ihli, and Debbie Ahlers, and was preceded in death by his brother, Gary Cocker.

In retirement, Rick found joy in gardening, woodworking, photography, and daily walks on his treadmill — he took his Fitbit step count seriously. More than anything, he cherished time with Pam, his children, and his grandchildren. Rick was known for his kindness, calm presence, and quiet devotion. He lived by the words: “Always take the high road — it’s far less traveled.”

The family will celebrate Rick’s life privately.

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5 Replies to "Remembering Richard 'Rick' Cocker, 1952-2025"

  • Allison April 10, 2025 (10:37 am)

    What a beautiful life he lived–I especially like the quote at the end.  Thank you for sharing, and my condolences to his family.

  • Merry Nye April 10, 2025 (11:07 am)

    This is devastating news. When I started work at the Post-Intelligencer in 1972, Rick’s brilliant career following his stint as a copy boy during college was one I always followed and greatly admired.  I ran into him many (but not enough) times over the years and still had not taken him up on his invitation to visit him and Pam in their new place on Alki, which I surely regret. My heart goes out to his loved ones. I’m so very sorry for this great loss. 

  • KT April 10, 2025 (12:35 pm)

    I worked with Rick on Scoop’s staff in 1979.  He was a kind, smart man.  Condolences to his family.

  • Marsha Albertson April 11, 2025 (7:03 am)

    I have nothing but the fondest memories of Rick; his kind and gentle nature was a strength to behold.  As I remember years past, the thoughts I have of Rick will always be of happy times. To Pam, Sarah and Claire…. My heart and my prayers go out to you at this most difficult time.  Thank you for sharing Rick with us…. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know him. God bless and comfort you all! 

  • Courtney Wallace April 18, 2025 (12:20 pm)

    Rick was an amazing human. I had the great fortune of being a client, but he quickly became a friend and mentor. I learned so much from him. I will always be so grateful for his kindness. By happenstance, he was with me when I first received the news of my mother’s terminal illness. His grace, support and compassion made of one the most devastating moments of my life bearable. He will be missed and I will carry his memory with me, always.

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