Remembering Karen Tomisser, 1958-2022

Family and friends are remembering Karen Tomisser, and sharing this remembrance with her community:

Karen Tomisser left us on June 28, 2022, unexpectedly and much too soon, following a short but hard-fought battle with cancer.

Karen lived a full life of 64 years showing her love, compassion, and generosity and her zest for life. She leaves behind 3 sisters, one of which was her twin sister, a brother, a brother-in-law, a sister-in-law, and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and many wonderful friends. Preceded in death were her parents, Edward and Maxine Tomisser, and a sister, Janice Tomisser. She will be missed by all and left a great legacy of love and support to all she knew. Karen also knew it was not the destination that counts but the journey.

Karen grew up in West Seattle, where she lived for over 60 years. She attended Jefferson Elementary, Madison Middle School, and upon graduating from West Seattle High School, she began her lifetime adventures. Karen always was young at heart. After high school, Karen found her niche working in the Kitchen and Bath Industry for Ross Display and Fixture Company for over 25 years. She enjoyed working with her clients to create and remodel dream kitchens and bathrooms for their homes. Desiring a change and new opportunity, Karen began a 7-year career in the grocery chain industry with Safeway, where she made an impact with all her customers and fellow colleagues. She loved many things but more than anything she loved people. Always willing to listen, she connected with people from all walks of life with working with her colleagues as well as friends and of course her family.

Karen had many interests. One of her favorites, when not sharing time with her sisters or nieces and nephews as they were growing up, was her ardent support always as a Seattle sports fan. The Mariners, Seahawks, and Huskies were her favorites year-round. Once her niece became a Gonzaga student and alumni, she had to add the Zags basketball too. She loved taking her nieces and nephews to The Mariners and arriving early for the jerseys and bobbleheads always available to the kids on special-occasion games. She followed all her favorite teams with lots of cheering and enthusiasm, especially the year the Seahawks won the Super Bowl!

Karen had a very strong work ethic and when she had time off, she always looked forward to planning an adventure to experience. She took many vacations to Hawaii, a trip to Europe, many Disney adventures, and always a summer excursion to enjoy the beauty of the Oregon Coast. She loved road trips exploring her native Washington State, visiting small towns looking for a unique cafe, bakery, or coffee shop. Traveling was a big enjoyment in Karen’s life as well as combining it with her interest in pop music; she enjoyed attending many concerts of her day with a few live concerts to see Elton John and taking her niece even to Las Vegas to attend a Celine Dion concert. She loved the classic ’70s pop era of music. She always shared her loved interest of many ’70s-era music with younger generations as she did not want them to miss out on some of the best years of good music she cherished. She also loved classic movies and had a fun time introducing them to her nieces to show them what life was like for past teenage generations and had a good laugh with them watching American Graffiti, What’s Up Doc, and when younger shared many Disney favorite films. She was always up on the latest trends keeping her always young at heart and one of the fun aunts to spend time with as she always knew the music of each generation as well as the new styles, loved attending Whirligig and other art exhibits, and festivals in the city and around Washington State. She loved her pets and animals in life and especially inherited her Mom’s love of Boston Bull Terriers. From taking her first baking class at West Seattle High School, cooking and baking were a favorite past time and she always enjoyed searching for new recipes first from all kinds of classes to eventually all the new recipes available on the internet. The holidays were always a great time to celebrate. She would have traditional family recipes and had a good time searching for new recipes to try. She absolutely loved her community of West Seattle, always enjoying reuniting with friends at high school reunions, partaking in Hi-Yu events, hopping on a Ferry boat, and the many times walking on Alki Beach and taking in the beautiful sunsets at Alki and lights of the city.

Karen will be missed by so many. The Tomisser Family wishes to thank the Swedish Oncology and Hospice Team in Seattle who cared for her during her final days. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society @ www.cancer.org.

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19 Replies to "Remembering Karen Tomisser, 1958-2022"

  • The Collins Family July 6, 2022 (12:00 pm)

    Wishing Carol and the Tomisser family peace. 

    • Carol G Tomisser July 6, 2022 (3:49 pm)

      Thanks Brian so much for your kind condolences.   

  • Carol G Tomisser July 6, 2022 (3:36 pm)

    Karen was my twin sister and it was a gift from God to have
    had her as my best friend for life.    So many adventures in our lives
    were always done with each other which makes this unexpected loss so difficult.  I will face being twinless with the same
    courage you showed us during your battle with cancer.  Wear those angel wings well, Karen, you have
    earned them.  I will forever be changed
    by your leaving but know that I will carry you with me every day until I see
    you again.  I promise, Karen, on each April 6, I will eat a Grand Central Bakery Cinamon Roll
    and be sixty-four forever.   RIP my sweet
    sister.

  • Connie July 6, 2022 (4:27 pm)

     Wow.  This one hit me hard.  I was good friends with Karen through school, and for several years after.  She was the maid-of-honor at my wedding in 1980.  Unfortunately, life had a way of sending us in different directions.   We had so much fun together as teens, some being spent driving around Alki in her orange VW bug.   She loved that bug. Rest well, Karen.   And Carol, she will always be a part of you… looking over you.  Peace to you and your family.

    • Carol Tomisser July 6, 2022 (9:23 pm)

      Thanks Connie for those precious memories πŸ’– They are keeping us going when it seems impossible to do so right now.

  • Lena VanBibber George July 9, 2022 (9:00 am)

    Karen will be missed by her coworkers. I’ll miss chatting with her during lunch. She always likes to point out that she was the very first person I hired. My condolences to Carol and the rest of her family. 

    • Carol Tomisser July 9, 2022 (10:01 pm)

      Thanks Lena for all your help managing everything during this devastating loss.  Karen enjoyed working at Safeway.   I loved hearing all the stories when she got home about all the interesting customers.  I will miss that…

  • Laurie strock July 9, 2022 (4:04 pm)

    Karen was one of a kind! I worked with her for 6 years at Safeway. I will never forget when she went to that bakery and brought me treats back from her short road trips with Carol. Thoughts and huge prayers to the family. πŸ™πŸ™ She ALWAYS talked about her twin Carol! ❀️ You will be missed Karen! 

    • Carol Tomisser July 9, 2022 (10:07 pm)

      Thanks so much Laurie.  Your kind condolences are appreciated more than you know as we try and figure out how to move forward from this devastating and unexpected loss. πŸ’” 

  • Kerry Simonsen July 10, 2022 (5:51 am)

    I only knew Karen for about a year and a half, working with her in the mornings at Safeway. She and I have the same sense of humor, and we spent our time catching up on weekend activities and retirement plans. She talked about you often, Carol. It breaks my heart that she passed so quickly, but I’m so glad she didn’t have to suffer too long. I realize none of you probably know me, but sending lots of love to all her family and friends. She definitely continued to make an impact on her community to the very end.I’ll miss her dearly. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

    • Carol Tomisser July 10, 2022 (1:02 pm)

      Thank you so much Kerry.  It is so comforting knowing Karen had such good friends as well as co-workers at her time with Safeway.   She will always be a part of me and am thankful for the time God gave us with her in our lives.

  • cathy logsdon July 11, 2022 (8:51 am)

    karen was a special person and was always there for me when i’d be upset about something she would always cheer me up she surely be missed but i know i will see her again

  • Jennifer July 12, 2022 (12:45 pm)

    I’m so sorry. My condolences. I remember our chats at Safeway. She was always so happy to chat with. And was so excited about starting her new chapter soon about moving to Arizona and retirement. Miss her . β™₯️ She will be missed by all. 

  • Cindy (Dawson) Waytula July 12, 2022 (5:05 pm)

    I’m so sorry to hear this. I remember Karen fondly from high school. She was always so happy and cheerful. I’m sure that a lot of people will miss her. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

  • Leanna Micona July 12, 2022 (8:26 pm)

    So sorry to hear of Karen’s passing.  My condolences to Carol and the Tommiser family.  May your memories of Karen help you through this difficult time.  

  • Deborah Peterson July 13, 2022 (8:00 am)

    Dear Carol, I am so sorry to hear of Karen’s passing. We had so many wonderful moments together in high school, and you two were always a huge support and comfort and dear friends to laugh with and have fun with, no matter what else was going on. Her goodness and genuinely kind spirit will live on through all who knew her. I am sending you love, Carol, and wishing you peace as you grieve her passing. Yours with much love, 

  • Colleen Faye (McNeilly) July 14, 2022 (11:47 am)

    Dear Carol,

    I’m deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved
    sister and best friend. I, too, lost my sister and best friend 8 years ago. I know you will miss her forever and your life will never be the same. In time, the pain will ease, however, you will think of her always. Thankfully, you can look forward to the day when you meet again in heaven to spend eternity together. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  • Mary Antonelli Higashi July 14, 2022 (12:54 pm)

     Very sorry for your loss Carol. Lots of great memories growing up with you two. May her treasured memories give you peace and heal your heart. Love and hugs

  • KERRY(KREIS)MUMPER July 20, 2022 (3:54 pm)

    DEAR CAROL,  SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR  SISTER.  I LOST MY SISTER IN 2012 AT THE AGE OF ’46’  ALSO WE LOST MY HUSBAND’S DAUGHTER  AT ’52’  LAST YEAR 4-29-21. ALTHOUGH WE MAY NOT UNDERSTAND THE REASON FOR THEIR LOSS GOD DOES. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND YOUR SPIRITS HIGH.  PRAYERS BE WITH YOU & YOUR FAMILY AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.  NOW IS THE TIME TO REALLY PUT TOGETHER A MEMORY BOOK OF ALL THE AWESOME TIMES YOU HAD TOGETHER WHETHER HAPPY OR SAD. IT WILL HELP YOU GET THROUGH THESE SAD TIMES.  BRUCE&KERRY (KREIS) MUMPER CLASS OF 1976. ABERDEEN WASHINGTON.

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