Remembering West Seattle resident Donald G. Markey, 1969-2013

Last Friday, we reported on a death at West Seattle Stadium the day before. Today, we know the man who died at the track was 44-year-old West Seattle resident Donald Markey; we have heard from his wife Leslie Markey, a native West Seattleite (who says old friends from WSHS/Madison/Alki would know her as Leslie Rhodes). She says her husband was in training for the upcoming physical exam to join the Seattle Police Department, and that she is thankful for SPD and Seattle Fire Department medics’ “beyond hope” efforts to save her husband’s life – “an unbelievable effort by our local fire and police.” Here is the remembrance she shared:

Donald Graham Markey, born March 8, 1969 died suddenly and unexpectedly at the age of 44 of a heart attack, on March 21, 2013. Son of Nancy Graham Markey (deceased) and John Cornelius Markey (deceased) of Charlotte, North Carolina. He is survived by his wife, Leslie C. Markey of Seattle; brother John Cornelius Markey, Jr. of Graham, North Carolina; Aunt and Uncle Steve and Cornelia Robinson of Charlotte, NC; and two beloved cats; Arnold and Abner.

Handsome, humorous, personable, and polite, Donald was smart, highly educated, motivated to be of service to others, and a man of faith. He was baptized a Christian in Anacortes in 2003. He was devoted to seeking a better understanding of God by exploring spirituality so that he could live in the sunlight of the spirit. He shared this journey with his wife. Donald’s relationship with Leslie began in 1999 and they then married in 2007 in Seattle, WA. He was blessed with a faith that worked, and it showed in the way he smiled, talked and loved.

Donald graduated from NC State University in Raleigh, North Carolina in Mechanical Engineering and received his high-school diploma from Charlotte Country Day School in Charlotte, NC. Donald also graduated from the Marine Carpentry program at Seattle Central’s Wood Construction Center, with advanced boat-building skills. He worked in that profession in Anacortes for Northern Marine. Primarily though, he was employed for approximately 18 years as a marine mechanical engineer, with two of his past employers being Todd Shipyard and Kvichak Marine. At the time of his death, Donald had chosen a strong departure from his prior marine-related careers, pursuing job opportunities with the City of Seattle Police Department. He was preparing for the physical-exam portion of the application process when his life was cut short.

Donald loved the water. He loved the Northwest and made it his home for over 20 years. He was a resident of West Seattle for the last 7 years. He loved the outdoors and enjoyed sailing, boat-building, surfing, and reading. He was an avid supporter of animal charities; a true guardian of animals in need, and was personally responsible for giving safe, lifelong, loving homes to 10 rescue cats. He considered himself to be politically progressive and cared deeply about national issues. He had great passion for the U.S., but loved all things U.K., with hopes of one day spending an extended amount of time touring in Scotland with his wife. He will be dearly missed by all who loved him and we are all better for having known him.

A memorial service will be held at St. Paul’s United Church of Christ in Ballard, Washington. Donations in lieu of flowers are requested to either the ASPCA (American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals), the Seattle Humane Society, or the Center for Wooden Boats.

Leslie says the service is already at capacity, so condolences would be appreciated in the form of thoughts or cards sent to her: Leslie C. Markey, 6307 California Ave SW #3B, Seattle, WA 98136.

11 Replies to "Remembering West Seattle resident Donald G. Markey, 1969-2013"

  • CEA March 29, 2013 (2:25 pm)

    What a wonderful man he must have been to have earned such a tribute. My deepest sympathies for your loss, Leslie. We need more of men like him here on earth.

  • bridge to somewhere March 29, 2013 (2:44 pm)

    My deepest condolences to Mrs. Markey. What a tremendous loss. I cannot imagine what she’s going through right now. Our hearts are with her and her family.

  • Margaret in Vashon March 29, 2013 (5:25 pm)

    My son and son-in-law are both in the generation of this fine young man. They, too, are in places of transition in their lives — in hopes of putting their stamp on this World in ways that are more meaningful to them. My heart hurts for all. I know that there are no words that can make this easier. I just need you to know that you are not alone.

  • onceachef March 29, 2013 (5:30 pm)

    very sorry for your loss.

  • AlkiwendyI March 29, 2013 (5:43 pm)

    Leslie, my thoughts are with you and your family. I lost my husband suddenly just before Christmas from a heart attack. The best advice I received was from my neighbor. She lost her husband several years ago. She said “people are going to want to help you. Let them. And you will be surprised where the help will come from.” She was right! Again, my thoughts are with you.

  • AlkiwendyI March 29, 2013 (6:12 pm)

    Leslie, my thoughts are with you and your family. I lost my husband suddenly from a heart attack shortly before Christmas. The best advice I received was from my neighbor who had lost her husband a few years ago. She said ” people are going to want to help you. Let them! And you will be surprised where the help will come from.” She was right. I could not have made it through the last few months without that help. Again, my thoughts are with you.

  • WS Parent March 29, 2013 (7:06 pm)

    My sympathies to you and your family.

  • Jim and Barb March 29, 2013 (10:09 pm)

    Leslie, our sympathy to you and your family. From a couple of your former classmates, you can bet our thoughts will be with you through these trying times. It sounds like he was a very wonderful man.

  • OP March 30, 2013 (7:09 am)

    May the peace and grace of God be with his wife and family. He seems like a good and decent man taken too soon.

    As a man who survived a heart attack at age 33, middle-aged men should take note of Mr. Markey’s early passing and stay on top of their heart health. People like Mr. Markey pass from heart attacks for two main reasons: a history of family heart disease or heart defects. I’m guessing Mr. Markey had one. Both are easily avoidable, only stubbornness stands in the way, gentlemen.

  • WTF March 30, 2013 (2:05 pm)

    Absolutely heartbreaking.
    We’re so sorry. Prayers to his family.

  • T Rex April 1, 2013 (10:20 am)

    What a tragic loss. In addition to Alkiwendy’s comments, you never know how strong you are, until you have to be.

    God bless you and your family.

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