Remembering “Auntie”

We don’t have an “obituary” section (though it’s been suggested), but when DeAnna Piccini e-mailed to ask that we publish one for her great-aunt, whose Funeral Mass is at Holy Rosary tomorrow, we found it hard to say no:

logozoobit.jpgThat’s a photo of DeAnna’s “Auntie,” whose life stopped only three years short of a full century. Here’s the full text of the obituary DeAnna sent:

On March 26, 2008 Catherine Logozo, our dear “Auntie,” passed into the next life in the same manner that she moved through this one, with peace and grace.

Auntie was 97 years old. She was born in Mammola, a small Italian hill town in Calabria, Italy, of peasant parents, Stefano Mazzone and Anglea Bruzzese. Like so many other southern Italians in that era, her family eventually emigrated to America in search of “a better life.” Thus it was that ten year old Catherine landed on Ellis Island in April 1921, with her mother, Angela, and her younger brother, Dominic — their father having come here several years earlier to find work and save up enough money to send for his family.

As a young, unschooled immigrant with no English, Catherine was put with the first graders at St. Benedict School near Green Lake. Much taller and more mature than her classmates, she soon came to be seen by them as a kind of Ê»big sister.’ After she learned English, though, her big sister role quickly evolved into young adult. At home, she was responsible not just to help with household chores, but also gardening, translating for her parents with shopkeepers, doctors, etc. For instance, as a young teen she missed school one day every week in order to take her 2-year old sister by trolley from Green Lake to and from Children’s Hospital, which then was atop Queen Anne Hill, to receive her physical therapy treatments for severe scoliosis.

Catherine lived the rest of her long life as one of the most selfless, joyful and gracious caretakers you would ever hope to meet. At age 16, she married a young Italian, Joe Logozo, whose family had also come from a town in Calabria. Joe was a recent veteran of the Italian army, and just starting his own, long career in heavy construction. Catherine and Joe built their first of two homes in West Seattle, where they became permanent residents.

Soon after building and occupying her own, first home, she bought another house nearby, for her own parents. This was the only house in America in which they were not renters. Meanwhile, her husband’s widowed mother moved into their home, where Catherine cared for her for almost 20 years. When Catherine and Joe built their next house just west of the W. Seattle Junction, it was home first to Catherine’s mother in law, then to her own mother, who lived there for about 15 years. When her husband, Joe, died unexpectedly, leaving virtually no assets other than their home, Catherine immediately set about securing her future by serving as a Nanny, working in the kitchen of a local catering company and renting her basement apartment. All the while, she continued to create the most amazing vegetable and flower gardens, prepare the world’s most delicious meals (everyone wanted Auntie’s recipes), knit afghans, and care for others.

Auntie will long be remembered by all who knew her — not for what she accomplished during her long life, but for the kind of person she was. All who are fortunate to have known her, from mail delivery persons to visiting nurses developed a fondness for her. Those of us who knew her as Auntie have been immeasurably blessed by her gentle joy, her utterly non-
judgemental acceptance of others, her quickness to forgive, her childlike trust in the Lord, and her hugely generous and loving heart.

In thankful celebration of Auntie’s great life, a Funeral Mass will be offered at 10 AM on Saturday, April 5, at Holy Rosary Church in West Seattle, which all are most welcome to attend.

5 Replies to "Remembering "Auntie""

  • Cruiser April 4, 2008 (8:57 am)

    DeAnna,

    Thank you for sharing the story of your great aunts life with us all.It is a true American tale, upon the like of which this country has thrived.

    It is indeed sad for those who remain that such a nice lady has passed. However she is now with her beloved Joe looking down on you, no doubt working on their new garden:)

    Take care

  • snowlion April 4, 2008 (9:09 am)

    What a great eulogy for someone who obviously had a rich and full life; success and happiness does not equate with fame and fortune. And I agree, a great American story.

  • JoB April 4, 2008 (10:11 am)

    DeAnna…

    what a lucky woman your aunti was to have a family who valued her she was… a good and caring woman.

    i wish more people would write obituaries like this one… celebrating a life lived with honesty and compassion.

  • BORN&RAISED WEST SEATTLEITE April 5, 2008 (7:30 pm)

    YOU GUYS SHOULD DO LOCAL OBITS..DID YOU KNOW THAT ALAN HART (FORMALLY KNOW AS HART’S CARDS, ADMIRAL DISTRICT) JUST PASSED AWAY.HE WAS A WEST SEATTLE ICON FOR YEARS!! MASSIVE STOKE TWO MONTHS AFTER RETIREMENT AND HE IS NOW GONE..YOU SHOULD DO A STORY ABOUT HIM…GREAT MAN!!

  • Kristina April 6, 2008 (9:41 pm)

    What a life beautifully lived – we could all learn from that kind of life. Thank you for sharing her story.

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