If the words “happy” and “holidays” don’t synch this year

Tonight at 7, Tibbetts United Methodist Church is presenting what its new pastor calls the “Blue Christmas/Longest Night” service. Rev. Dr. Joanne Carlson Brown describes it this way:

No, it is not just an Elvis song. For many people, Christmas is not the most wonderful time of the year. Maybe someone you loved died this year and this is the first Christmas without them. Maybe you lost someone around Christmas time and the anniversary is painful. Maybe you’ve lost your job or even your faith. Maybe it is just the holidays are way too much to handle. For whatever reason, if you find yourself at odds with the holiday cheer, come spend an hour with others in a time to acknowledge the grief, the sadness, the pain and to find a way to hope. This is a service of readings, prayers and music.

Tibbetts UMC is at 3940 41st SW (that’s 41st/Andover; here’s a map). When we first heard from the pastor about this, and she mentioned having just been appointed, we asked her for a short bio:

Joanne has served churches in Chicago, New York City, Seattle, Eatonville, and most recently in Tacoma. She has taught at Boston University School of Theology, Pacific Lutheran University, St. Andrew’s College in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, and is currently adjunct faculty at Seattle University School of Theology and Ministry. She has moved to West Seattle and lives with her beloved fur person, Thistle the wonder westie. She is delighted to be at Tibbetts UMC, a Reconciling Congregation that lives out the radically inclusive gospel.

7 Replies to "If the words "happy" and "holidays" don't synch this year"

  • The Velvet Bulldog December 16, 2007 (10:39 am)

    LOL! Will “Thistle the Wonder Westie” be at the service??

  • JenV December 16, 2007 (11:32 am)

    I suppose if you hate Xmas and are not a Christian there are plenty of bars open on Xmas day….

  • Barbara December 16, 2007 (1:50 pm)

    I don’t think this service is a matter of “hating” Christmas, but not wanting to celebrate it for any number of reasons. If a loved one has passed away, or just is unable to be with you for the holidays (like a lot of people whose spouses are off at war), then you may not be in a festive mood, and it’s hard to get away from “festive” this time of year.

  • Erik December 16, 2007 (1:53 pm)

    Yeah, nothing a little ‘thistle’ from the basement can’t cure.

  • The Velvet Bulldog December 16, 2007 (2:17 pm)

    Erik – I hope that “thistle” isn’t coming from our neighbors on the corner!! :-)

  • David December 16, 2007 (4:17 pm)

    Brilliant. I always give a big credit to anyone who thinks outside the box. Instead of just more buy buy buy, or happy happy happy Christmas, it’s nice to see ONE place acknowledge that it’s not always a festive cute time of year. If you’ve had a hard time, listening to singing chipmonks and being prodded to spend your way to heaven can be too much. I haven’t seen this tact before, good for them.

  • Sue December 17, 2007 (7:17 am)

    I think this is a wonderful idea. If I’m not mistaken, suicides are usually up during the holidays, and that would certainly indicate that it’s not “happy happy” for everyone, and it’s good to see someone acknowledge that rather than scolding someone for their “bah humbug” attitude. I hope this helps some people in need.

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