JoB
The advice i gave my daughter…
don’t even consider marriage until you just plain can’t imagine life without someone.
she didn’t understand until this year.
she would agonize about should i or shouldn’t i and i would tell her the answer was no. When it was right she would be asking how … not if.
at the age of 40 my little girl founds someone she cares so much about that she is more concerned with how they will find jobs on the same continent and manage the wedding than finishing her Phd.
practical mom says being a Mrs Phd is a bonus ;->
and my oh so practical daughter will follow through…
but she gets it now…
bottom line…
marriage is about building a life together…
and if you are willing to turn your life upside down to do so… it’s well worth doing.
That kind of love lasts long past the “i’ll be anything you want to please you” stage…
and weathers more than a few bouts of gloomy gus…
HMCRich…
isn’t that the best part…
for some reason he loves me too ;)