West Seattle’s Tibbetts United Methodist Church defying denomination’s discrimination decision

The photo is from the Rev. Sarah Casey, pastor at Tibbetts United Methodist Church (WSB sponsor), who wants you to know that despite a move in the parent denomination to discriminate against LGBTQIA people, the West Seattle church is and will remain “a place where ALL people have the opportunity to grow spiritually in Christian community.” Here’s the email she sent to the congregation earlier this week:

It is with deep sadness that I share with you that the General Conference of the United Methodist Church has voted to adopt the Traditional Plan. This means that there is no way forward for the UMC that affirms the call to discipleship and sacred worth of LGBTQ+ persons.

I struggle to find the words to express the outrage, disappointment, and grief I am feeling. I know I am not alone in this.

I do not know what will happen in the months ahead. I do not know how our denomination will move forward, if there will be a schism, or how this tragedy will continue to unfold.

This is what I do know: I know that for 110 years Tibbetts UMC has baptized babies that have bloomed into straight and LGBTQ+ disciples. I know that there is no legislation or ruling that can override or take away our baptismal covenant: that we are loved by God. I know that we have and will continue to encourage and celebrate our LGBTQ+ siblings in Christ. Their stories are part and parcel to the identity of our faith community. Without them, there is no us.

The mission of Tibbetts is “To seek to be an all-inclusive congregation that provides dynamic ministries for all ages. We are committed to discipleship through outreach, community service, and spiritual growth.”

Our mission has not changed.

The church is not God. The Book of Discipline is not Jesus. Our love for one another is bigger than the Traditional Plan, bigger than the institutional church, bigger than hate.

I hope you will make it a point to be present in worship on Sunday as we weep and mourn what has happened, and as we celebrate and affirm that God is still God, we are still Tibbetts, and we will continue to proclaim the inclusive Gospel of Christ that loves and accepts ALL people.

We will celebrate the sacrament of Holy Communion, and there will be a seat for each and every one of us at God’s table.

The pastor tells WSB, “Our Tibbetts leadership team met Thursday evening and we are in full agreement that our congregation will continue to be open and affirming of LGBTQ+ persons as we believe it is a faithful reflection of the Gospel.” She adds, “Our Bishop in the Pacific Northwest Annual Conference, Elaine Stanovsky, is committed to full inclusion. What that looks like in the coming months and years is yet to be seen. Our Bishop has indicated that we are not going anywhere, implying progressive/affirming churches are not going to exit the denomination.” But what would happen if the denomination leadership decided to enforce the new policy “remains unclear.” She added in our followup exchange:

My personal hope is that progressive Methodists will see this as an opportunity for rebirth, to create a new expression of Methodism that is inclusive and affirming of all people, while remaining grounded in Wesleyan theology and practice. The two are not mutually exclusive, and the reality is that our Wesleyan (Methodist) tradition actually does lend itself to full inclusion! Our practices are rooted in the baptismal covenant, that each and every person is loved and valued by God. How can we claim all people are made in the image of God and then tell people they cannot be who God created them to be? We do not get to decide how divine presence manifests itself in our world!

She is not alone in her sentiment, according to reports like this one from the New York Times.

23 Replies to "West Seattle's Tibbetts United Methodist Church defying denomination's discrimination decision"

  • Andee March 1, 2019 (9:03 pm)

    Thank you for the courage & integrity your church has shown in response to the small minded, bigoted leadership of the General Conference. I am a straight, married woman who hasn’t attended church for years but am touched & heartened & wish you the best. 

    • Lynne Howe March 4, 2019 (6:36 am)

      To the courageous clergy and congregation of Tippetts United Methodist Church: KUDOS! WAY TO ROCK IT! HALLELUJAH FOR YOUR BRAVERY IN AFFIRMING THE LOVE OF GOD AND JESUS! And yes, I am screaming with delight at the stand you have taken, and am here to tell you that there are other pockets of resistance out here. Thank you so very much for taking your public and affirming stand. Love and prayers to all of you. Shalom, Lynne Howe, Lena United Methodist Church

  • Workdowntown March 1, 2019 (9:24 pm)

    Thanks Andee, totally agree with you. Reverend Sarah, way to go! 

  • KM March 1, 2019 (11:53 pm)

    Heck yes. I grew up in the United Methodist church and there a lot of wonderful leaders there fighting for equality. 

  • Chris d March 2, 2019 (12:00 am)

    Right on Rev. Sarah, you are a true leader to hold to your position, despite those that do not have the ability to see the greatness in everyone despite the differences. You are especially welcome in West Seattle.

  • WS resident March 2, 2019 (7:39 am)

    What Andre said! ⬆️

  • Blbl March 2, 2019 (11:39 am)

    The UMC’s move is one more example of how humans have used a set of old stories to divide communities and justify hate. The sooner people make decisions based on reason and compassion instead of how they  believe some artificial being may want things, the better we will all be.  I applaud Rev. Casey’s words, but people should know that a life without god is no less fulfilling than a life with god. In fact it is more fulfilling because it recognizes that we alone are responsible for the good and the bad things that happen to us. There is no heaven or hell, but there is family, community, our earth, our universe, ourselves. That is enough because that is everything.  

  • T. H. Traylor March 2, 2019 (4:20 pm)

    It is truly wonderful to read about the raw courage this pastor has shown.  It is truly sad to see that the Convention has succumbed to the fears of their conservative wing. If I remember correctly Jesus preached and demanded that we love one another.  This is the antithesis of his message of redemption.Bless you Reverend Sarah

  • B March 2, 2019 (7:47 pm)

    This really makes me feel such promise and pride in humanity 

  • me March 3, 2019 (1:40 pm)

    Amazing, I’m so happy to read this beautiful news. Thank you Tibbetts and every one who supports this.

  • Darla Lewis March 3, 2019 (1:53 pm)

    From what I am reading and hearing about the decisions, as well as what our pastor informed the congregation today regarding LBTQA and same sex marriage discussion at the UMConference this past weekend, this statement by Pastor Sarah Casey seems misleading.  There was no vote to “throw out” those who are of the LGBT community.  Everyone of every color, creed, nationality, sinner or saint is welcome in the United Methodist Church.  In addition, having to discuss and make a decision on some vital issues of the church, the Conference made the decision to continue to follow the biblical teachings of Christ.  Now we should begin the process of healing; love one another as Christ loves you.  Simply put: agree to disagree respectfully.  

    • newnative March 5, 2019 (8:29 am)

      What’s respectful about banning same-sex marriages, banning LGBTQ clergy and banning the ability of each church to determine its own decision-making? What’s Christ-like about that? 

  • Dale Swanson March 3, 2019 (4:45 pm)

     “Condemn no man for not thinking as you think. Let every one enjoy the full and free liberty of thinking for himself. Let every man use his own judgment, since every man must give an account of himself to God. Abhor every approach, in any kind or degree, to the spirit of persecution, if you cannot reason nor persuade a man into the truth, never attempt to force a man into it. If love will not compel him to come, leave him to God, the judge of all”—John Wesley founder of Methodism

  • Morganjct37 March 3, 2019 (7:44 pm)

    Thank you for sharing! With both Grace Church (google West Seattle Grace church covenant and see images) and Arbor Heights Community Church pushing their Anti-LGBTQ+ agenda its great to know there are least a few safe places where ANYONE can worship. So hard to fathom it exists in WS but it does! I wish someone would publish a list of safe churches so we can distinguish the haters hiding behind their churches and those that are all welcoming. 

    • D-Mom March 4, 2019 (7:15 am)

      You mean that I live just a few doors down from an anti-LGBTQ church?  That makes me sick!  I had no idea. Here I am thinking that the small, community church in Arbor Heights was liberal. 

      • Lovingmom March 5, 2019 (7:27 am)

        Pastor John confirmed you can come to service if you are gay but cannot be a member. Sort of like segregation no? They are hosting a retreat at the end of month by leader of GC with an agenda that greatly saddens us lgbtq+ supporters. Ask for a copy maybe? He was asked not to host it by community members. He denied the request. Friends with the Faust’s for years. Shares similar views. All on the internet. Sad. 

        • Lovingdad March 5, 2019 (2:20 pm)

          As you advised, I looked into it and found that it is cancelled.

  • Love&peace March 3, 2019 (9:26 pm)

    This is beautiful! Crazy to think there are churches in our beloved WS that are anti-gay but there are more than a few that do….Love Tibbetts for taking action and WSB for publishing. 

  • D-Mom March 4, 2019 (7:18 am)

    Thank you Rev. Casey!  And thank you to the leaders of Tibbetts Church!  Glad to know that some churches use common sense and love over hateful agendas. Proud to have this church in West Seattle!  And thank you WSB for running this story. 

  • West SeattleForAll March 4, 2019 (5:06 pm)

    Now this is the news we all need to hear right now! There is so much hate in the world, and it costs absolutely nothing to be kind. To everyone, regardless of how they identify or who they happen to love. I’ve heard Grace Church doesn’t “openly” condemn, but that’s even more shady, in my opinion. I spoke to someone recently that told me that she attends Grace Church and that “she didn’t know that they believe in conversion therapy” but would be attending anyway because it “doesn’t affect her anyway because she’s not gay.” That Kool Aid must be really sweet.Thank you to those of you out in the streets showing support, and thank you WSB for the coverage. 

  • James 1:19-20 March 5, 2019 (8:13 am)

    Respectfully agree to disagree. My heart is heavy seeing the rediculous amount of slander and libel directed at these churches. I’ve attended both of these churches (and many more around West Seattle) and have experienced their love for the LGBTQIA+ community.Futhermore, the word “bigot” is constantly being thrown around, attempting to define these churches; however, when I look up the word – it defines people who can not tolerate other people with differing opinions. Therefore bigot would define those who are constantly slandering these groups. If you have a differing opinions (as we all do about various things, because we are individuals), that’s great. How about trying to communicate in civil way to help one another gain persepective; and if that is not possible, agree to disagree – don’t talk about it, just be about it. This is a free country. The book of James was written to the church who was being oppressed and even hunted. “This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.”‭‭James‬ ‭1:19-20‬ ‭

  • Jalice March 6, 2019 (9:21 pm)

    I’m new to Methodism, and when the news got about about the “traditionalist” vote, I was saddened and embarrassed. Here I thought I’d finally found a faith community that stands for more than dogma, and with that new, I worried that perhaps it was a fluke, or worse, a ruse. Thankfully, Pastor Sarah and many  others at Tibbetts UMC have shown me that my hopes are not unfounded. PRIDE is restored in all aspects of my life. Gay Pride, Methodist Pride, Community Pride…

  • ScubaFrog March 10, 2019 (11:22 am)

    That’s touching and rejuvenating.  A great thing to read this Sunday.  Rev. Sarah Casey, You Rock!

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